Maturity is allowing your daughter in law to wear pyjama, jeans, top, designer dresses or any kind of clothes she is comfortable in just like your own daughter and not just that heavy and hectic saree with pallu all the time.
Maturity is to let your tired daughter in law sleep a bit more somedays just like your son and let your son serve tea and coffe and entertain the guests and relatives sometimes (entertaining guests is not a gender specific work and the value of your prince son will not degrade if he doest that). After all she is also a human just like your son and wants a little more love, sleep and rest just like your son.
Maturity is to love, respect and care your mother and wife equally.
Maturity is helping your wife in daily household chores and in managing the baby.
Maturity is not judging the character of any girl by the length of her clothes.
Maturity is realizing that no one cares about you like your parents not even your boyfriend, girlfriend or a century long best friend.
Maturity is not taking any decision for yourself or any of your family member under the pressure of what will that chaar log (society) think.
Maturity is not to abuse or hate that school or college girl/boy or that office colleagues of yours whom you liked and wanted to be in a realtionship with her/him but she/he chose someone else over you infact let that hatred and anger go away and move on in life.
Maturity is not to abuse or hate your ex lover instead to forgive her/him for your own peace and move on in life.
Maturity is not to scold your child in front of everyone in parents teacher meeting instead to make him/her understand everything in private when you come back home.
Maturity is to treat your subordinates with respect.
Maturity is not to stare those thighs of that girl wearing a one piece dress or shorts in metro, party, club or wherever like a lusty and hungry wolf instead realizing the fact that those are the same pair of thighs which you have.
Maturity is to love and respect your wife equally even on bad hair days, on periods, even when she is fertile or not doesn't matter and vice versa that is to love your husband even when he is struggling and every other odd time.
Maturity is not to cheat with your partner instead first tell the truth, have a mutual break up then move on with the new partner whom you have found.
Maturity is never ever to beg anyone to be in your life.
Maturity is to exercise daily at least a little bit rather than being a couch potato.
Maturity is realizing that beating your child for studies or any other thing, doesn't make any sense infact words have more power.
Maturity is to never ignore your loved ones and if you are doing so then please stop calling them your loved ones and acting sweet in front of them because they were never ever your priority.
Maturity is realizing that break up, low marks in studies, your loved ones leaving/forgetting you is just another bad phase of life which comes almost in everyone's life and it too shall pass just like the happy days.
Maturity is never to overthink about any life problem and never to be overattached and dependent with anything or anyone.
Maturity is not to cry for those who left you.
Maturity is not be jealous with your classmate’s, batchmate’s and colleague’s progress in life.
Maturity is realizing that every person comes with some or the other flaw and no one is perfect.
Maturity is not to be too emotional, sensitive or to be too good all the time.
Maturity is to be strictly against dowry and bribery in your life.
Maturity is to never ever raise your hand on your wife and to never ever falsely accuse your husband or in laws in dowry case.
Maturity is to respect girls, ladies, even the rape victims, single mothers, and widows just like goddess Durga, Parvati and Lakshmi otherwise no point of yours in worshipping these female godessess. They all deserve respect in general.
Maturity is not to grope any girl or woman taking undue advantage of crowd in public transport or wherever instead make her feel safe and comfortable.
Maturity is realizing that there is no better feeling than making your parents, your country, your loved ones and yourself proud and smile by your noble karma.
Maturity is realizing that these KFC, Dominos, Pizza Hut, Mac'Donalds are not good for health in long run and it is those green leafy vegetables which will ultimately save you.
Maturity is to either have any realtionship (not only girlfriend-boyfriend one but any relation like friends, brothers, rakhi sister and brother or any) with full involvement, respect and love or not to have it at all because realtionships with just formalities suck.
Maturity is not judging anyone on the basis of virginity and when the virginity of your partner doesn't matter to you at all in marriage and accepting and respecting the fact that he/she may had a past which many people do have these days (may be you didn't just like me but still I swear I will not mind at all if my future wife is not virgin though I am virgin, beacause ultimately its the heart and nature of a person that matters and not little things like virginity or hymen, so please).
Maturity is to be silent and avoid quarrels and heated arguments instead of replying with anger.
Maturity is to see a beautiful girl all alone in night as responsibility and not opportunity and if possible then drop them safely at home at night after your party or meeting is over (which I always used to do like a gentleman when I was in Delhi) and at the same time not to file fake rape cases on men or women.
Maturity is to never ever compare your child with anyone.
Maturity is not be to materialistic and not to judge anyone on the basis of brand he/she posses.
Maturity is to never ever discriminate anyone on the basis of caste, colour, religion, financial status or any such thing.
Maturity is not to judge anyone by his/her looks because its only the intentions of the person that matters.
Maturity is realizing that the Indian Amry, Navy, Air Force, all other armed forces and people like Kailash Satyarthi are the real heroes of India and not the bollywood people and cricketers.
Maturity is not to burn the public property of India in the name of protest.
Maturity is realizing the fact that the social media likes and followers list should not matter much in real life.
Maturity is to help people but not to expect any help back or anything in return in future as this can hurt you very badly sometimes.
Maturity is that suppose if you are following any beautiful Quoran by chance like (respected Ma'am and sister to all) Anshu Bharti, User-10086545741325972160 Smita Mishra, Neha Joshi, Chavi Sharma, Divya Sharma, Divya Sewani, Nidhi Rajput, Samantha Kannan, Iva Izabela Miholic, Saranya Ravichandran, Shefali Naidu, User-9807555680508124344, Shiveha Verma, Vandana Mishra (वंदना मिश्रा), User-12942825456525046042, Sindhu Satish, User-11131038252507567333 (I follow all these respected ladies and Ma’am) then it is to read and learn from their beautiful, logical, rational and useful answers from their own life experiences and not to ever harass them or anyone in general (whether male or female) by sending any d**k pic, or any vulgar, creepy, hate or disturbing message on any site because at the end of the day they all are also someone's sister, daughter, wife (if married) and mother. Respect women in general.
Maturity is knowing that reading Bhagwad Geeta is infinite times better than reading any Chetan Bhagat novel or any other novel in the universe.
Maturity is realizing that life is much more than partying at clubs on weekends with beautiful girls and handsome dudes and enjoying with your beautiful wife or handsome husband at honeymoon or on any trip (which is not wrong at all I am saying) and that is to do something for your country and humanity before you die.
Maturity is not to trouble or speak shit about anyone’s sister, daughter or mother just like you cannot tolerate the same for your own sister or mother.
Maturity is not to pelt stones on Indian Army.
Maturity is not differentiating between girl child and boy child and to never ever kill girl child before birth. Stop female foeticide.
Maturity is not to throw acid or rape that girl to satisfy your ego who rejected your proposal or who insulted you, instead behave like a gentleman and move on. Stop rapes and acid attacks please.
Maturity is not to procastinate in life.
Finally, maturity is realizing that Dravid was equally good as Sachin (for cricket lovers).
Remember that maturity is not a one day process. You become mature slowly and slowly in life, everyone’s pace is different. Each day you are mature one unit more than yesterday.
-MK Zaidi
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